Relationships don't end because you stop loving each other,

they end because you can't stop hating each other.

When I have asked partners if they had the choice of getting their way in their relationship or never having to have that ice pick under the rib cage feeling when you hate the person you love, but you they couldn't have both, the majority of couples choose the latter.

What do you do when you are hating the one you love? More importantly, what do you do to bring back the loving feelings?